Like Squall said, childless women are rarely mature, unless they're starting to near 30.
Most women (or rather, girls) I know that are my age (+/- 2) are lagging so far behind the guys I know in regards to maturity it's kinda sad.
True.
It just sucks that most girls automatically think that Age = Maturity, and that everyone younger than 25 are dickheads that only think of 1 thing.
Yeah, I was joking. Lo. I'm PMSing. Lucky you guys!
I did mention that some girls that are older are not as mature as the young man they're dating (example would be a 30 year old woman with an 18 year old man). Yeah, Squall is right that usually most women are not fully matured till they have children or close to their 30s.
I can say in all honesty that I am not fully mature yet. Do I think I'm more mature and down to earth than most girls my age where I live? Yes. Most girls here just want to get married right out of high school. I have a life and a plan that I'm working on. Besides, I see these girls getting married and they have the maturity as a 12 year old. I know that I'm not mature enough to get married. I know marriage takes a lot of work and I want to be prepared to give into the relationship to the fullest.
You don't have to be too serious, that was one of my problems, I was too serious, so they feared me. :lol:
Well like Bree said, women like to feel secured emotionally, physically and financially.
It's true. We do. Whether we are independent or not in this era of pro feminism, and some women will not admit it, we all wish for a man that can be secure emotionally, physically, and financially even if we as women are already secure in those areas. A man that can hold a job, hold you when you cry, say the right things at the right time...those are the things women look for in a mate. It's been imprinted in our minds since the dawn of time. It means they are a potential mate. Even though we want to be independent, there are times when we just need to have that security to know that if things get tough, we can count on our mate.
Usually I don't show my serious side until I feel I can trust them with it... If that makes any sense
For the most part I think I'm not being serious
enough.
It's quite the predicament.
Just be normal, just be yourself. If they don't like you its their prob. You can at the most try helping them in difficulties or something and make them feel comfortable when you are around, and not freak em. "OOOOOOOH ITS RICHIE RUN!!!!" that would be fail.
Ahelia, honey, you need to be yourself. Do not be the person you think a woman is looking for. If you are wearing a mask with a woman that you can't be real with and end up marrying her, are you going to be able to hold that mask throughout that relationship? Or you can all of a sudden switch your personality and what if it doesn't settle well with your partner?
The best thing you can do is be yourself! The only advice I would give in this situation, is just to make yourself improve in other areas.
But hun, you need to be happy. If you aren't yourself in a relationship and not happy, the relationship is going to die and you're going to have an unhappy life if you continue on in that relationship.
Maybe on the first date you shouldn't reveal that tat on your ass.
(just an example. Haha). But later on, when you get more comfortable, feel free to open up more. Tell her though before you guys do the dirty dance.
Meh hope that makes sense. I don't feel so creative today.
said women should stick to prostitution.
No. Look at my reply from Silenus. If it was a joke, it was dry.
