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Need advices... (serious)

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#1 ·
I am so depressed today, well, here's the full story:

There's a girl I loved in deeply in my heart. The strange thing is, we don't know each other. Anyway, I have been watching her since the beginning of this year. I am just not brave enough to express my feeling on her, but she might have noticed it, since my friends are trying to get us together, there tried manny ways. Well, the problem is, we only meet each other in the tuition centre, and the last 2 classes will be on next week. Kinda like after next week, everything will be over and I dont think we will ever be able to meet each other again. Since the last Monday, I have been telling myself, "it is over, it is over..." and I felt like I am going crazy and yes, I am really sad. Just today, I said something bad on her, actually, I am repeating a joke from a friend of mine, which I think, hurts her and she caught it incidently. She started to evade me, we usually wait at the same bus station, but now she hidded herself in somewhere I can't see her, but I know, she's there... this has never happened before.

Well, pardon my bad English. I am feeling really bad now, yes really bad, I need advices badly, shall I express my feel on her? or just let it overs and focus on my studdies, my final exams(the BIG one) is arround the corner.
 
#56 ·
Then give up already, ES. There's nothing more pitiful to a girl than a guy with no self-esteem. Believe me, by now she KNOWS your intentions (girl talk spreads faster than a virus), and if you don't make your move ASAP, she'll see you as nothing more than a coward.
 
#59 ·
dammit squall listen to me on dis one trust me dunt giv her no letter shes gunna think ur a freak... go up start a convo wid her and ask for a number!!!
 
#62 ·
Evil Squall, you seriously aren't that bad of a guy. I see you around here time to time, and although I have never actually sat down and had a good conversation with you before now, I know that you aren't a bad person.

I look around me, and I see plenty of bad people who have girls. The difference is that they are confident that they are good people in spite of being the scum of the earth. If it helps, I am sure that you know a few guys like that. Just look at them for a bit. If they can do it, so can you.

I know that you would be dying on the inside, but just act calmly and sure on the outside. Turn your brain off. Just program yourself to say the words, and turn it back on when she gives a reply. Let things flow after that.
 
#64 ·
i know how that shyness feels n it really feels bad when ur in a situation like this. oh well, if u cant do it by tomorrow, then ull forget about it eventually... :(
n shiori, it must be hard on u ending a relationship after 5 years :(
 
#65 ·
Originally posted by Evil Squall
A coward, that's what I am. I will give up now, ahem... SPM...
Err... I was thinking some reverse psychology might give you some pep, but I guess you took it literally. :confused:
 
#67 · (Edited)
Thanks guys, really, I appreciate the inputs, but,I had think of it, I really have not much time left, if ony I could get to know her earlier. By believing that I will no longer see her again, I think I am able to forget her after a while.

Before I forgot, Hanamichi, best of luck, at least you know her, dont be a coward like I do. BTW, I have got my ADSL.

OK, OFF to tuition!!!
 
#68 ·
Ahh, don't worry, there will be other girls you'll meet soon enough. Just don't chicken out next time. ;)
 
#69 ·
Oh no, not again. Plz ES, I don't think u'll study well if u don't talk to her and get it out of ur system. If she says yes, then u have all the time in the world to get to know her. If she says no, then u'll atleast get peace of mind. And it's really no shame, 'cause she's the one who's whose losing out on a great guy. ;) And, like stated before, there will be others. Still, u gotta fall down before u learn how to walk stright. Opps, now I'm talking like my grandfather :D
 
#70 ·
Evil Squall : problem is that you primarily focus on talk to her,and if you stand beside her and think what to say,it mostly ends that you dont say anything,you cant do nothing with it,but time change it,and if she leaves soon,you will forget her quickly,especially when new ePSXe will be out or adriPSX :) and you have us !
 
#71 ·
she probably wasn't The One for you, if you can forget her. i'm trying to forget the girl i'm in love with since march, with no luck. she's the love of my life, no doubt about it. too bad i don't have a chance with her, we already cleared that out. we're great friends, anyway, and i can't quit hoping things will change. hope dies last.

nyaa
 
#74 ·
Originally posted by jegHegy
vivrantpig, you're advices seem too, er, pushy. the girls who fall for that are usually sluts. er, no offense meant @_@

nyaa
naw its a easy way to start a convo with sumone u dunt kno... and get numbers :D

ha i wuz tryin it with sumone today actually... but she wuz like walkin to her car?? i ono o_O imma talk to her tomorrow... hopefully a number :D
 
#75 ·
Originally posted by jegHegy
she probably wasn't The One for you, if you can forget her. i'm trying to forget the girl i'm in love with since march, with no luck. she's the love of my life, no doubt about it. too bad i don't have a chance with her, we already cleared that out. we're great friends, anyway, and i can't quit hoping things will change. hope dies last.

nyaa
i dunt understand how u guys can say sumone is the love of ur life when all u like about them is their looks?? and u dunt even talk to them or kno their personality?? i dunt get it -_-