The Saga of FLaRe's Love Life

FLaRe85 · May 25, 2004

What do you do when you've just been dumped and aren't sure how to react? Write a story about the whole damn thing! :heh:

Seriously though, I'm not sure who in their right (or left) mind would be prompted to do such an absurd thing as a result of being dumped, but I guess I'm not like other people. Last night, my girlfriend said "I'm breaking up with you" and I said "alright, I'll turn it into this big 3-part story for my blog." I actually had this strange feeling of satisfaction after I got off the phone with her, because I knew that this was coming. I just had no idea it would be so soon. So, I guess you could say I was pretty much prepared for it. It's also pretty sad, but I've been through so much hell in my life that I have my emotions trained. I basically choose what does and doesn't upset me. Of course, there was that initial moment "OMFG, What you say?!" Though, I'm suprisingly mellow and even upbeat, now. After she told me her reasons, I'm almost glad she decided to leave me. I won't give details as I've planned everything out into this cheesey three-piece story for my blog. So, you'll have to go there if you want to check it out. I'll try to make it entertaining.

Later, I plan on selling the collection of nudie pictures I took while we were a "happy" couple on eBay. (j/k) I'm much more creative than that when it comes to getting back at somebody. Does anybody have any idea how much a billboard might run me? :evil:

I swear! I am not on crack...this is just how I deal with things. Get used to it. Okay. Great.

DarkAurora · May 25, 2004

A wise saying: "Don't get mad, get even!" :evil:

Xeven · May 25, 2004

and you mispelled it too

Kane · May 25, 2004

FlaRe: Even tho you just got dumped, most likely you've had far more luck than most of the guys here (myself especialy) and to be honest I'm more than a little envious of what you had.
But it wasn't to be. So now you are one of us again :evil:

Quatro · May 25, 2004

well I saw your gf's pic way back in emufanatics... is she the one your refering to?

well honestly, I also have a recent break-up with my 4 years gf... and I too don't kow what to react at first... especially when the reason was not because she's not happy but because of a third party... well you always can't get it out of your mind at first so I had a help of close and some good old friends to help me out, someone to talk with, go out and make myself entertained...

I guess thats life and reality, not a fairy tale wherein you always get the girl and live a happy life... but the best thing we learn from those is it will make us to learn more about handling relationship better the next time around.

also a friend always told me this:
" God will never leave you empty, He will replace everything you lost... if He ask you to put something down, its because He wants you to pick up something GREATER"

and I believe this one... hope it goes for all of you guys too...

Kaiser Sigma · May 25, 2004

I never had a gf on the first place so I know not how a break up feels... what I can tell you is that life with a gf sounds like a tour on the museum to me, you can watch but you might not touch.
Life as a bachelor/pimp sure is fun! Hope you join that team :evil:

Betamax · May 25, 2004

To misquote, "Hell hath no fury like a webmaster scorned"

Anyways mate, feck her. If she is not smart enough to see what she's lost well tough luck to her

.

Me on the other hand have this annoying curse that I call the "surrogate brother syndrome". In a nutshell I'm that nice guy that girls talk to, but never date.

aerith099 · May 25, 2004

Regarding the nudie photos:

Just give them back to her. You can make some crude comment if you like to get even, but do not show them to anyone else or spread them around. When a guy does that, he becomes the biggest and most immature jerk in the world.

Cid Highwind · May 25, 2004

If she's a hot girl he's the nicest guy in the world :joke:

I agree with you on that one Aerith!

Hint for Kaiser: Find a nice GF, a real nice one, build up a relationship which will get you closer, and you'll see, in a while you're allowed to touch

Sidenote: I'm still not gonna join ya, still looking to score in the rebound

2 Flare: I actually reacted the same when my GF broke up with me 3 weeks ago. And I think we both had that feeling. I also had the feeling that I shouldn't let it bring me down, but that it was a sign to get my a$$ in gear and do something about it.

You can play the game, take the cards that they deal, and pretend that it's all over... BUT NOT ME

Btw. I posted my story in the regular love topic here

To Quatro: I'm glad to see you see things that way. I'm not religious myself, but I also feel that what happened was good. Especially since she and I are still friends, and you know what they say (a wise lesson I learned on emuforums):

What doesn't kill your relationship makes it stronger

And now I'm gonna read Flare's complete blog.

jaydawg · May 25, 2004

Man here is what you do if your bugged about a #@@# that doesnt want you. Think of her taking a poo poo or picking her nose. Think real hard on that..then you'll never want her again :thumb:

Guest · May 25, 2004

hm, flare; your blog is actually nice to read;
it's not full of angst or entirely vague, like those other blogs I always come across... :thumb:

FLaRe85 · May 25, 2004

I think this is the only real relationship where I've made so many details public and the whole thing played itself out on the boards where everybody knew about my gf. Oh man...[vEX] and Raziel are going to be pissed when they find out. :\

It's really weird to just have things end so suddenly, because just as you all might be thinking, it ended so unexpectedly, without warning at a time where we seemed happiest. We just had our 2 year anniversary for crying out loud. How could anybody pick a more inopportune time?

Also, just for clarification to aerith099: I wasn't actually serious about spreading any of that. I've had the chance before and having it again, I don't think I'm going to make the opposite decision. Although, the thought has crossed my mind about what her reaction would be like if such a thing did occur. She deserves it, no doubt, but I'm going to do much worse while not being so immature as you say. To make a long story short, she is a very fake, very superficial, and very materialistic girl. I am not satisfied with this chapter of my life remaining so shrouded in mystery as to what happened. I will forever wonder the real reasons of her decision unless I answer that question "why?" I've already begun the information-digging process and have unearthed some very revealing and, at the same time, very disturbing facts. She may have expected her true motives to remain elusive, but the way she went about things was just plain wrong and extremely hurtful..and for that, I will expose her and see to it that she doesn't get off so easily.

All I know for sure is that I was used...I was manipulated and toyed with for her own personal satisfaction only to be thrown away like a piece of meat when she saw fit. I will not take such a thing as this so lightly. I saw it happen to my best friend and he no longer trusts women because of it. I will not suffer the same fate, for I will emerge the victor in this battle.

Kirby · May 25, 2004

Kaiser Sigma said:
I never had a gf on the first place so I know not how a break up feels... what I can tell you is that life with a gf sounds like a tour on the museum to me, you can watch but you might not touch.
Life as a bachelor/pimp sure is fun! Hope you join that team :evil:

:baka: The bachelor life is sweet. No GF to worry about...no GF to buy gifts for. But revenge on a GF tastes so much sweeter

Just try and keep your revenge on the legal side

cowfez · May 25, 2004

jaydawg said:
Man here is what you do if your bugged about a #@@# that doesnt want you. Think of her taking a poo poo or picking her nose. Think real hard on that..then you'll never want her again :thumb:

My God... PLEASE tell me either A:
Your seriously inebriated. Or B:
Your one of those London Zoo experimental internet monkeys, and you're "learning."
This is one of those posts that... I don't even know what to say.

Sorry for that.
Flare, if you ever decide about those pics... well.. hehe. :nod:
Sounds like you've had some tough luck, but don't give up. De's women day do spin us around.

Kaiser Sigma · May 25, 2004

Betamax said:
Me on the other hand have this annoying curse that I call the "surrogate brother syndrome". In a nutshell I'm that nice guy that girls talk to, but never date.

Curse ? What are you talking about ? That status is how all the great pimp started...

Cid Highwind said:
Hint for Kaiser: Find a nice GF, a real nice one, build up a relationship which will get you closer, and you'll see, in a while you're allowed to touch
Sidenote: I'm still not gonna join ya, still looking to score in the rebound

Rel... ationship ? Sorry, the bots at #ngemu are disabled... no !define available, thus I can't say that I know what are you talking about

Samor said:
it's not full of angst or entirely vague, like those other blogs I always come across... :thumb:

Geez, if that's the case then don't come even close to my blog... even Ryos got confused last time I wrote something

Death Metal · May 26, 2004

FLaRe85 said:
All I know for sure is that I was used...I was manipulated and toyed with for her own personal satisfaction only to be thrown away like a piece of meat when she saw fit. I will not take such a thing as this so lightly. I saw it happen to my best friend and he no longer trusts women because of it. I will not suffer the same fate, for I will emerge the victor in this battle.

Nicely said, Flare. I like the way you put things. You never expect to be one's adversary, but if it comes to this end, it will do you no good to live with hatred unless you unleash it. Just don't do anything that will make you lose your reason.

Razor Blade · May 26, 2004

Well in a way that sucks but since you have been expecting it and didn't seem that heart broken, Yay!

Yea after going out so many time and dumping or being dumped the surprise kind of wears off and it isn;t so much "I hate that *****" but more like "Meh"

Of course there is the odd few that you really like and wish it never happened ...

/Razor slips into memory mode

I was twelve, I had just received my first period and ... :heh: Wait thats not me, thats the story of ...

:evil: LOL, I'm so weird. Looks like me and Flare have one thing in common, acting crazy when breaking up. :lol: My last girlfriend breaking up situation was a little similar. I was kind of looking forward to it. She was annoying and wanted to spend every second with me. Between friends, school, interne, games and tv there just wasn't time for her. So I dumped her. :evil: I truly am beyond hope.

Death Metal · May 26, 2004

Razor Blade said:
Between friends, school, interne, games and tv there just wasn't time for her. So I dumped her. :evil: I truly am beyond hope.

Yeah, now that was a little problem.

I never had a girlfriend in the first place (I wonder why this is so common around this board

), but I did have my desilusions -- and for me they were all hard to bear, at that. That's why I agree to Flare's decisions, since you can't play the dumb for your entire life. Women are so untrustful these days.

Razor Blade · May 26, 2004

Yea, Let's not forget how "They are always right"

Xeven · May 26, 2004

they never ever admit their faults too -_-'

The Saga of FLaRe's Love Life

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Kane

Quatro

Kaiser Sigma

Betamax

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Cid Highwind

jaydawg

Guest

FLaRe85

Kirby

cowfez

Kaiser Sigma

Death Metal

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