well, i've a girlfriend and our relationship is getting from bad to worse. Initially i thot she was a very nice ger. But after a year, i realise she is more than i can handle......
U see, she has an extreme inferiority complex, and she would sometimes be extremely paranoid and possessive. In the beginning, i would continually try to reassure her, in hoping that this is juz temporary. But after a year, the problem is still there. She would make a fuss (even when i go out with my guy friends!). And always demanded that i REPORT my whereabouts whenever she feels unassured. Becos of her, i seem to be losing frens faster than losing my framerates (not tt my trusty pc had). Wat's worse, she seems to be acting like a 7-yr old ger. She likes to cry alot and doesnt seem to display any maturity. E.g When she is sick, she dun see a doctor. She juz simply says that "it will go away". Or when she had pimples, she doesnt do anything until it gets too serious. It's like taking care of a small child. Well, all these are wearing mi down. We have countless quarrels and everytime we quarrelled, my head hurts. My mood has since turned worst and i get angry often now. In the past, i was a very cheerful guy but now, if a day goes by quietly, i would be happy.
U guys may probably wonder y hav i chosen to write in this forum. Well, i figure that u guys (techies, gamers, epsxers like mi), too, have a life.....hav friends.....been in relationships....been out of relationships....etc. Wat should i do? I did try to break up wif her, but she would juz plead that i would giv her another chance. But i gave her chance after chance.....but nothing improves. Wat should i do?
U see, she has an extreme inferiority complex, and she would sometimes be extremely paranoid and possessive. In the beginning, i would continually try to reassure her, in hoping that this is juz temporary. But after a year, the problem is still there. She would make a fuss (even when i go out with my guy friends!). And always demanded that i REPORT my whereabouts whenever she feels unassured. Becos of her, i seem to be losing frens faster than losing my framerates (not tt my trusty pc had). Wat's worse, she seems to be acting like a 7-yr old ger. She likes to cry alot and doesnt seem to display any maturity. E.g When she is sick, she dun see a doctor. She juz simply says that "it will go away". Or when she had pimples, she doesnt do anything until it gets too serious. It's like taking care of a small child. Well, all these are wearing mi down. We have countless quarrels and everytime we quarrelled, my head hurts. My mood has since turned worst and i get angry often now. In the past, i was a very cheerful guy but now, if a day goes by quietly, i would be happy.
U guys may probably wonder y hav i chosen to write in this forum. Well, i figure that u guys (techies, gamers, epsxers like mi), too, have a life.....hav friends.....been in relationships....been out of relationships....etc. Wat should i do? I did try to break up wif her, but she would juz plead that i would giv her another chance. But i gave her chance after chance.....but nothing improves. Wat should i do?
