I find people´s way of controlling children, and deciding everything for them is getting out of hand sometimes. Especially when it comes to games. You already learn from a young age that things like that aren´t real. When you have grown up in the 8-bit era, those things are easier to understand. But when games have more and more realistic graphics, then naturally it becomes harder. I for one, never had a problem distinguishing between reality and fantasy. I love my family, i love people in general, and i have played GTA since i was in my early teens. I played my first video game when i was 2. I have the intelligence of a 40 year old (Which really doesn´t say much, since we don´t use more brain capacity at 40 as we do when we are 4, people only use a few percent of their brain in total their entire life).
Either way, i am regarded as a fairly smart fellow. I am not violent by nature. I threat everyone i meet good. I hate injustice, and i don´t hesitate to defend anyone being bullied. Not by violence, but by words. People should try that, it is very effective. My point by saying all of this is...I have played games my entire life. I have played about ALL the games that are supposed to be bad for kids, as a kid, and so have my two brothers. None of us is violent. We are not isolated inside our homes playing games all the time, regardless of us playing games since the diaper age.
So i can safely say that what they say about games having a bad influence on children is absolute crap. Do you want to know what has the absolute worst influence on children? PARENTS. It is the truth. If you have bad parents, who fails to teach you about life, who fails to teach you to distinguish between reality and fiction, who fails to teach you AT ALL, and leave all that to the school, THEN things will get ugly. Parents have a responsibility in all this too, but they have to be fair, they have to stop being such diapersniffers. Let the children LIVE.
Stop blaming games for your own mistakes. Games doesn´t do ANYTHING to kids. People do.
And also, if people who have committed crimes blames it on video games, there are a few possibilities: They have (Very likely) a problem. They can´t distinguish between reality and fiction, as i stated earlier there. That is either the parents fault, because they haven´t been PARENTING. Or, there is something wrong in their head. The parents have to take some responsibility here as well. They can have some sort of psychological problems that causes them to do these things, because they saw it in a game. Not the game´s fault, the psychological issues is to blame there. There is also yet another possibility: He uses the game as a scapegoat, so he (It is normally a he when it comes to these incidents, it is not to be sexist) blames the game, possibly to be declared insane, and get a shorter term.
It helps if you use LOGIC sometimes, instead of blatantly blaming it on a freaking GAME. I don´t care much for what any of you have to say further about this. I have said mine, i´ll leave the rest to you. I have better things to do with my time. What i have written i have written. Eat this sweetish segment or spit it out, you are free.