Dante, love initially, is not a feeling. It is a verb, which when acted upon evolves into a beautiful feeling, resulting in an unbreakable bond. But as I said, love starts as a verb, if it starts as a feeling...it can't be love.
What I wanna say, or rather ask, is: what tells you that you love her? What is there that makes you think you love her? As I said, love is a verb which means...caring for, looking after and "being there" when the person needs you. Making sure the other person is never sad, making sure the other person is never left without any of his/her requirements. I can't understand how love can START in an electronic way!
I am talking about love in a general way. I don't regard the boy-girl love things too highly, because most of the time the base is very weak and is mostly one sided.
You seem to love her by any definition of the word love. But judge it yourself, does she too love you in the similar way? No one else can judge it. In my case, even if I get a hunch that the other person is ignoring me...even to a certain degree, I'll back off. I'll cut myself off from that person. If that person really does love me, that person will come to me. I wouldn't need to go there. I'll just have to control my emotions.
If you love someone, Set her free... If she comes back, she's yours, If she doesn't, she never was.... ___________________________________________
The New Versions…
Pessimist: If you love someone, Set her free ... If she ever comes back, she's yours, If she doesn't, as expected, she never was...
Optimist: If you love someone, Set her free ... Don't worry, she will come back.
Suspicious: If you love someone, Set her free ... If she ever comes back, ask her why.
Impatient: If you love someone, Set her free ... If she doesn't come back within some time forget her.
Patient: If you love someone, Set her free ... If she doesn't come back, continue to wait until she comes back ...
Playful: If you love someone, Set her free ... * If she comes back, and if you love her still, set her free again, repeat *
C++ Programmer: If(you-love(m_she)) m_she.free() if(m_she == NULL) m_she= new CShe;
Animal-Rights Activist: If you love someone, Set her free, In fact, all living creatures deserve to be free!!
Lawyers: If you love someone, Set her free, Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a-1 in the Second Amendment of the Matrimonial Freedom Act clearly states that...
Bill Gates : If you love someone, Set her free, If she comes back, I think we can charge her for re-installation fees but tell her that she's also going to get an upgrade.
biologist : If you love someone, Set her free, She'll evolve
(Well, nice to smile even when you're sad 'n sober. So excuse me for the little joke at the end