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· Coffee Demon
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hehehe...the ongoing dillemma. You find yourself with a fun and attractive woman. It is quite the accomplishment, but the problem is that your trophy girlfriend is fun and attractive to every other guy. You try to be trusting, but you trust nobody else around her. The problem is that even though you trust her (but not them) she will still see it as if you don't trust her....Thus the dillemma...haha

We think your in the right direction...you kids need to communicate. She may be a little more experienced in regards to dating, but you even stated that this is her first "real" relationship...so it is a first for you both. Make it your misson to always make her feel desirable...if you don't someone else will. You will always have the insecurities, but keep tellin yourself that at the end of the day she is still with you.

Your in for quite a big mission buddy, but it should be quite the learning experience. Good luck to you...and remember that insecurities can cause failed relationships, but they also serve as a warning mechanism...if something does not feel right, and you find her stepping to far into her flirtatious ways..then walk away...
 

· Coffee Demon
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ah...damn...We hate when we are right, but we saw it coming. Guess it comes with experience.

You'll be ok ShadowDancer. It sucks that you had to experience betrayal later then usual....Usually humans get their first taste of betrayal with teenage puppy love. As Miretank said...it makes you stronger and wiser (and perhaps a little bitter).

Everything happens for a reason...This chick had your emotions in an unhealthy knot, had you failing in your studies, and would have you lose many friends. That is not love buddy.

DW is usually a listener or we share wisdom..but this time we are telling you "DO NOT BE HER FRIEND" This girls is the equivalent to a modern day mythical siren (You know..the ones that lured sailors in with their looks, and led them to their doom..haha). She lost that privelege when she betrayed you. Besides...it is merely her way of stringing you along, and it sounds like she is quite good at it. We are sure many others have fell victim to her skill...probably the very same guy friends she gathers around her.

Move on...let your wounds heal...and find another. If anything it teaches you that you did have the skill to land a trophy chick. So put a notch on your belt player, go hang out with some friends, and maybe try dukenukem's advice ;)
 
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